Embracing Positivity

The above is my favorite quote and I have added it to my signature line in my emails.  This idea is an important part of my attitude about work and life and it has helped me to see the solutions to my daily problems and also to find happiness.   In Forni's chapter on positivity he speaks about the importance of keeping a positive spirit and optimism as a way to see the possible positive future that you would like to try to make happen.  Your attitude will shape how you see the past and the present as well. Will you see adversity as a nightmare or a puzzle to be solved?  Positive thoughts lead to positive, proactive actions. As Forni states, "The thoughts we carry around in our heads make us the people we are and give shape to the lives we live."  When we have a positive attitude and are optimistic about our future, we are better equipped to make the important decisions in life that will lead to positive results.  "It is the faith that leads to achievement". 

Proactivity as a meta-virtue-  As Forni states, "Proactivity is both a dynamic and wise way of being in the world, often supported by a positive attitude". Thinking of possible obstacles and avoiding these by making positive proactive choices leads to an avoidance of many unnecessary conflicts or problems.  It is the art of preparing and thinking and then acting without delay or procrastination.  Often we will procrastinate a task that we find unpleasant or not act at all when an obstacle is looming.  This often results in extra stress, work and conflict when issues aren't resolved in a timely manner.  Much of our stress can be reduced when we anticipate the future and act in a thoughtful, timely way.  The following are the benefits that Forni lists for being proactive....

1. You are in control of your feelings and therefore of your choices.
2. By showing both yourself and the world that you have the willpower to take the path of greater resistance, you increase your sense of self-worth.
3. By acting before problems become intractable, you make life less stressful for yourself, your loved ones, and your colleagues.
4. By acquiring a reputation as a problem solver, you become indispensable at work and are rewarded with promotions.
5. By leading a thinking life, you lead a safer life.
6. You are gratified by feeling that you at doing both the right and the expedient thing.
7. By promptly taking care of unpleasant tasks, you do not experience the dreading that come with procrastination.